We all know how fulfilling it can be to set a goal, but turning it into reality requires focused commitment and mindful guidance. Goals, in fact, aren’t just dreams; they need structure, clarity, and a concrete path to be achieved. With the right approach, however, any milestone can become attainable.
The difference between a dream and a goal
Dreams and goals are often confused, but there’s a fundamental difference. A dream is an idea that inspires and motivates; it’s something we enjoy imagining, something that feels good to think about achieving. However, dreams tend to remain abstract and distant. A goal, on the other hand, is more defined: it’s a dream "brought down to earth" with a precise, measurable plan—a path that propels us to take action.
How to formulate concrete goals using the SMART method
Setting concrete goals is a process that requires some practice, but there are useful guidelines to help you get off on the right foot. One of the most well-known goal-setting methods is the SMART method:
Specific:Â A goal must be clear and precise. Avoid vague formulations that could create confusion or ambiguity. To make a goal specific, ask yourself exactly what you want to achieve and in what area. A well-defined goal provides a clear direction and allows you to focus on concrete actions, preventing you from getting lost in generalities.
Measurable: To have a clear assessment of your progress, it’s essential that the goal is measurable. This means you should be able to quantify the results achieved. Ask yourself how you can verify whether you have reached the goal and what indicators you can use to monitor your progress. Having measurable parameters helps you stay motivated and understand if you are on the right track.
Achievable: It’s important that the goal is attainable, meaning it can be reached with the resources and skills you have available. When setting your targets, consider your well-being and try to avoid imposing overly ambitious goals. If the goal seems unattainable, it could lead to frustration and demotivation. An achievable goal should align with your current abilities and the context in which you operate.
Realistic: Dreaming big is certainly encouraging, but it’s essential to be honest with yourself. This means carefully considering the resources, time, and energy you can dedicate to achieving the goal. A realistic goal is one that, while requiring effort, remains attainable and relevant to your current situation. If a goal seems excessively distant, it can be helpful to break it down into smaller, more manageable milestones.
Time-bound:Â Every goal should have a clear and concrete deadline. Establishing a timeframe for achieving your goal will help you stay motivated and organize your actions effectively. A deadline allows you to assess your progress and make any necessary adjustments to your action plan.
Example
To better understand how the SMART method can help you, let’s look at an example:
Dream:Â "I want to write a book."
SMART Goal:Â "Within six months, I want to write the first chapter of my book, dedicating at least two hours every Tuesday and Thursday evening to writing."
Let’s see how this goal meets the SMART criteria:
Specific: The goal is clear: it’s not just "I want to write a book," but "write the first chapter," specifying the days and times for writing.
Measurable: It’s easy to verify whether the first chapter is completed within six months and if the weekly writing hours have been adhered to.
Achievable: Dedicating two evenings a week is a reasonable commitment that doesn’t jeopardize other activities.
Realistic:Â Writing just the first chapter, rather than the entire book, is realistic and considers the available time.
Time-bound:Â The six-month deadline provides a clear timeframe, fostering motivation and discipline.
Concrete goals, tangible results
Having a clear vision of your goals provides a sense of greater control over your life. Knowing that you have a plan, that you can see and measure your progress, not only boosts your confidence but also allows you to savor every small achievement along the way.
Many people feel stuck or frustrated not because they lack dreams, but because they don’t know where to start to make them a reality. The real challenge is precisely this: turning what was just a thought yesterday into something concrete today. And when you feel a bit lost, or when the path seems unclear, this is where the support of an experienced guide can come into play.
First step: assess your goals
If you want to take the first step toward your goals, start by making a list of your dreams and transforming them into objectives using the SMART method. Choose one or two goals to begin with and allow yourself to experiment. It may seem difficult at first, but setting and achieving a goal is a skill that develops with practice.
Conclusion: don't wait
Once a goal is clearly formulated, it already has one foot in reality. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to start. With a bit of organization and plenty of motivation, you’ll be surprised at what you can achieve. And if, along this journey, you feel the need for someone to guide you and help keep you focused, know that coaching could be the right resource for you.
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